Cognitive distortions are biased ways of thinking that can lead to irrational beliefs and negative emotions. Recognizing and understanding these distortions is a key component of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). In this blog post, we will explore different types of cognitive distortions (including specific examples) for each type to help you better understand how they may manifest in your everyday life. Everyone struggles with cognitive distortions. This is not unique to those with anxiety, depression or other challenges. Cognitive distortions are a human phenomenon.

All-or-Nothing Thinking (Black-and-White Thinking)

This type of cognitive distortion involves seeing situations, events, or people in extreme, absolute terms, with no middle ground. It often leads to perfectionism and a belief that anything less than perfect is a failure.

Example: You are learning to play the guitar and miss a few notes during a performance. Instead of accepting that mistakes are a natural part of learning, you think, "I'm terrible at this. I'll never be a good guitarist."

Overgeneralization

Overgeneralization occurs when you make broad conclusions based on a single event or evidence. You might start to see a pattern of failure or negativity that doesn't exist.

Example: You recently applied for a job promotion but didn't get it. Instead of considering why you weren't chosen, you conclude that you'll never be successful in your career. “I will always be rejected.”

Mental Filter

A mental filter is when you focus solely on the negative aspects of a situation while ignoring or downplaying the positive aspects. This distortion can cause you to feel unnecessarily pessimistic and dissatisfied.

Example: You receive feedback on a project, and your supervisor praises your creativity but suggests improving your time management. Instead of acknowledging your strengths, you dwell only on the criticism, feeling inadequate and defeated. “She doesn’t think I can do anything right. I am terrible with time.”

Disqualifying the Positive

With this distortion, you dismiss or negate positive experiences, accomplishments, or compliments, often believing that they don't count or are not genuine.

Example: A friend compliments your outfit, but you dismiss their praise, thinking they're only saying it to be nice and that your outfit is actually unflattering. “This must be a terrible outfit if she is giving me compliments on it.”

Jumping to Conclusions

Jumping to conclusions involves making assumptions about a situation or someone's thoughts and feelings without sufficient evidence. This distortion often takes two forms: mind-reading (assuming you know what others think) and fortune-telling (predicting negative outcomes).

Example: You notice your partner is quiet during dinner and immediately assume they're upset with you. In reality, they may simply be tired or preoccupied with their own thoughts, but it’s hard to see that perspective in the moment. “I did something wrong.”

Magnification (Catastrophizing) and Minimization

Magnification is when you exaggerate the importance of a negative event or emotion, while minimization is when you downplay the significance of a positive event or emotion. Both distortions can lead to an imbalanced perspective on your life experiences.

Example: You spill coffee on your shirt before a meeting and think, "This is a disaster! My entire day is ruined!" Meanwhile, you dismiss the praise you received for a successful presentation earlier in the week, believing it wasn't that important.

Emotional Reasoning

Emotional reasoning involves using your emotions as evidence for the truth of a belief or thought rather than relying on objective facts or logic. This distortion can lead to self-fulfilling prophecies, as your emotions dictate your reality.

Example: You feel anxious about attending a social event, so you conclude that it must be because you're not good at socializing and will be awkward. “I am so embarrassing. I always do the weirdest things.”

Should Statements

"Should" statements involve imposing rigid expectations or rules on yourself or others, leading to guilt, frustration, and disappointment when these expectations are unmet. This distortion can also manifest as "must," "ought to," or "have to" statements.

Example: You believe you should always be productive and never waste time. When you take a break to relax, you feel guilty and think, "I should be doing something more useful with my time."

Labeling

Labeling involves attaching a negative label to yourself or others based on a single action or event. This distortion simplifies complex situations and individuals into a single negative characteristic.

Example: You forget to respond to an important email and immediately label yourself as "irresponsible," ignoring the many times you have been responsible and attentive to your tasks. “I am so irresponsible- I didn’t do this on time and look like I don’t care.”

Personalization

Personalization is when you take responsibility for events or situations that are beyond your control or influence. This distortion can lead to feelings of guilt, shame, and a sense of being overly responsible for the well-being of others.

Example: Your friend cancels plans with you, and you assume it's because they don't enjoy spending time with you rather than considering other reasons, such as an unexpected conflict in their schedule. “The last time we got together he looked bored. He canceled because I am not fun.”

Recognizing and understanding cognitive distortions is essential to improving your mental health and well-being. By becoming aware of these distorted thought patterns, you can begin to challenge them and replace them with more balanced and realistic thoughts. Changing thoughts takes time and work, but it is 100% possible.